Happy Easter Everyone. :)
Today I got some "hate" texts, that really kinda threw me for a loop. Let me explain as simply as possible.
How can I put it simply? Ugh.
So, let's start here...I've been chatting, emailing, texting with New Girl for about a month. It's been good, or so I thought. We just made tentative plans on Friday, to go see a movie together...after weeks of going back and forth, back and forth about the monogamous, polyamory thing.
A little background to the story...
So a few weeks ago, I realized that New Girl & Lucy know each other. At some point, I guess I said, of all the girls New Girl could date, I wished she wouldn't date Lucy. (Although, I do not remember saying this? I figured I probably said something along the lines of "1500 girls at derby and the one you know, is her...blah blah blah.)
Anyway, so this morning I get these viscious little texts from Lucy reprimanding me for telling New Girl she couldn't date Lucy. WTF? I mean really? Do I even have that power??
New Girl has consistently said she wasn't dating or seeing or interested in dating or seeing Lucy...so...I dunno...now I'm getting angry texts out of the blue from Lucy?
I don't get it.
Either way, I'm not talking to New Girl anymore. I can't stand the "she said, she said" drama.
For the record tho...I didn't try to make anyone angry. And, Lucy called me fake? I don't even get that...but she's certainly entitled to her opinion.
I'm a wee bit disappointed in the fact that New Girl would go tell Lucy that I said they couldn't date? I mean...even if I did say that...and don't get me wrong, in all of the banter, I very well could have...why did she need to mention it to Lucy? Not that it was a secret, but I dunno. It just seems kinda silly.
Oh well. New Girl = Fail.
I'm gonna quote the texts here...just to get it off my chest.
Her: So I have a question for you.
Me: K
Her: Who the hell do you think you are? Like honestly. To tell a girl I grew up with, someone I've known since I was a child, that she could date anyone except me. Who the fuck do you think you are? You're married. How about you get a fucking clue?
Me: What are you talking about?
Her: If a girl tells you she doesn't want you, get it thru your head. Stop freaking people out.
Me: Who told me she didn't want me? (Like at this point, I wasn't sure who she was talking about herself or New Girl?)
Her: You are such a fake person. It's really sad.
Me: Ok. (Because, what the hell else am I gonna say?)
Me: Sorry, I totally didn't mean to make anyone angry. I'm not even gonna talk to her anymore.
And, interspersed in there was a convo with New Girl, during which I asked if she told Lucy she couldn't date her, to which she answered yes. Then I told her I was getting some hate texts. Then I told her to leave me alone. I mean, because really, why all the drama?
I hate feeling stupid, and that's just kinda how I feel now. I've tried really hard to be open and honest with New Girl. And, she kept insisting that there was nothing between her and Lucy. But obviously, there must be something or why else would Lucy get so pissed? And, I don't like being called fake, because I try really hard not to be fake and to be open and honest with people? Maybe I'm not tho? Maybe I think I am, but other people just think I'm a big ol' fake cheeseball with boobs. I dunno.
Oh, girls. What? The? Hell?
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