SideEffect.

I found a new unexpected side effect of being a 39 year old married woman who's dating a 23 year old woman...

I can't be there for her in a time of crisis.   I mean I could be there...but I can't because her family can't know about me. 

I'm not complaining at all.  I'm just saying I wish I could be there for her.  And, I can't.

I'd love to hold her to sleep.